Buddhist Funerals in Singapore: Customs, Traditions, and Rites to Know Of
- Elysian Funeral Services
- Dec 17, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Jan 27
By Elysian Funeral Services
Compassion • Dignity • Grace
Introduction
Buddhist funerals in Singapore are centred on peace, mindfulness, and the belief in impermanence and rebirth. Rather than focusing solely on grief, a Buddhist Funeral honours the departed’s journey, encourages the accumulation of merit, and offers calm reassurance to family and friends.
During this emotionally sensitive time, families may feel uncertain about the rituals, chants, and customs involved. At Elysian Funeral Services, we provide gentle guidance and professional care—ensuring every rite is carried out respectfully, beautifully, and in alignment with Buddhist traditions. This guide outlines the key customs, traditions, and rites commonly observed in Buddhist funerals in Singapore.
1. Overview of Buddhist Funerals in Singapore
Buddhist funerals vary slightly depending on tradition—such as Theravāda, Mahāyāna, or Vajrayāna—but they share a common focus on compassion, enlightenment, and the peaceful transition of the soul.
A typical Singapore Funeral Services arrangement for a Buddhist funeral includes:
Chanting sessions led by monks or nuns
Offerings to the Buddha and the deceased
Wake services over several days
Cremation or burial rites
Post-funeral prayer observances
A knowledgeable funeral provider ensures these rituals are coordinated properly while providing emotional support to grieving families.
2. Wake Setup and Duration
The wake usually lasts 3 to 5 days, though shorter arrangements are increasingly common in Singapore.
Wake Locations
Funeral Parlour – Offers privacy, comfort, and a serene premium environment.
HDB Void Deck – A traditional and widely practised option.
At Elysian Funeral Services, our Buddhist wake setups are designed to be calm, refined, and spiritually uplifting, featuring:
A central altar with Buddha imagery
A framed photo of the deceased
Fresh flowers and candles
Incense and offering tables
Comfortable seating and soft lighting
3. Key Buddhist Funeral Rites
A. Chanting Ceremonies (诵经)
Monks chant sacred sutras to:
Guide the consciousness of the deceased
Accumulate merit on their behalf
Bring peace and comfort to the family
Common chants may include the Amitabha Sutra, Heart Sutra, or Medicine Buddha Mantra, depending on the tradition.
B. Offering Rituals
Offerings symbolise respect, generosity, and compassion. These often include:
Fruits and vegetarian dishes
Flowers
Candles and incense
Water or tea or coffee
The offerings remind attendees of impermanence and the virtue of giving.
C. Transfer of Merit (回向)
Merit gained from chanting and offerings is dedicated to the deceased, wishing them a favourable rebirth and spiritual peace.
D. Mindful Reflection
Buddhist funerals encourage quiet contemplation. Families and visitors may meditate, chant softly, or reflect silently on life’s impermanence.
4. Attire and Behaviour at a Buddhist Funeral
Appropriate etiquette reflects humility and respect.
Dress Code
White, grey, or dark colours are preferred.
Avoid bright colours such as red or yellow.
Dress modestly and conservatively.
Conduct
Speak softly.
Observe rituals quietly.
Avoid stepping directly in front of the altar unnecessarily.
Follow guidance from monks or the funeral team.
Our funeral services team ensures guests feel comfortable and informed throughout the service.
5. Cremation or Burial
Most Buddhist families in Singapore opt for cremation, in accordance with Buddhist teachings on impermanence. Cremation takes place at Mandai, while burial occurs at Choa Chu Kang Cemetery.
Final Rites
Monks conduct final chants.
Family members offer incense.
The deceased is respectfully sent off.
Ashes may later be placed typically in a columbarium, temple, or home altar, depending on family preference. If not, they may be scattered at Inland-Scattering sites or at sea.
6. Post-Funeral Buddhist Observances
Some families continue prayers after the funeral, such as:
7-day, 49-day, or 100-day prayer sessions.
Temple dedication rituals.
Annual remembrance ceremonies.
These rites are believed to support the deceased’s journey and provide ongoing comfort to loved ones.
7. Why Choose Elysian Funeral Services for Buddhist Funerals
At Elysian Funeral Services, we offer a balance of tradition, professionalism, and refined care.
✓ Experienced Buddhist Funeral Specialists
We are well-versed in different Buddhist traditions and customs.
✓ Elegant and Peaceful Setups
Our minimalist, serene designs reflect Buddhist values.
✓ Compassionate Guidance
We walk alongside families with patience and understanding.
✓ Complete Funeral Services
From monk coordination to cremation arrangements and permits, we handle it all.
✓ Trusted Singapore Funeral Provider
We are committed to dignity, transparency, and respectful service.
8. The Importance of Understanding Customs
Understanding the customs surrounding Buddhist funerals can help families navigate this challenging time. It allows for a more meaningful farewell, honouring the life of the departed.
By embracing these traditions, we can find comfort in shared practices and the collective support of our community.
Conclusion
Buddhist funerals in Singapore are a profound expression of compassion, mindfulness, and reverence. Understanding the customs and rites allows families to honour their loved ones with calm assurance and grace.
At Elysian Funeral Services, we are dedicated to supporting families with heartfelt care and premium service—ensuring each farewell is conducted with peace, dignity, and respect. Should you need guidance or immediate assistance, our team is always here to help.
For more information on our services, please visit our contact us for a non-obligatory quotation.
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